how to dive into web programming

I'm just starting to get serious about web programming, and I've done a decent amount of research about how to master it. I quickly articulated this advice in an email to a friend, and I thought I'd post it here:


Her question:

From: AM
To: Sam Odio
Subject: hi i'm curious..

Hi,

I saw that you're doing SCIP - so then I looked up what a functional programming language was, and according to wikipedia functional languages "have largely been emphasized in academia rather than in commercial software development." But it notes that you can use it for commercial use as well. So are you doing it just to learn or is to serve some future practical purpose?

I was just wondering b/c I always want to know what the best language to learn is (not that I have much of an intention of learning any sort of functional programming after getting extremely confused by your progress tracking on bluwiki) and I also know that this is all based largely on personal preference, but i'm still curious....

AM.

My response:

From: Sam Odio
To: AM
Subject: Re: hi i'm curious..

my suggestion:

1) learn an object oriented language & framework (I'm doing pything w/ djano, you can also do ruby/rails or php/symfony)
2) learn functional programming w/ SICP if you want to get good (CLisp, scheme, arc)

#2 will take a lot of time, and yield few direct results. But it'll help you understand what is capable w/ programming. Long-term results, not short-term. If you want ONLY short-term results, learn php/symfony. PHP is not completely object oriented, but quick & dirty.

-s

What does everyone think? did I give her the right advice?